February 20, 2012

Why do Japanese women scream while having sex?

About the author, Timelizzle
Born and raised in Canada. Now living in and working in Kobe, Japan. I'm into Anime, J-Drama, J-pop/rock, Manga and Video Games. I'm here to bring you exciting news straight from Japan and try to answer questions regarding the cultural differences between Japan and a western country.

Hi, everyone! This is Timelizzle. I’m a Canadian now living and working in Kobe, Japan. So a lot of people have been asking questions about the cultural differences between Japan and that of a western country. I’m here today to try and answer those questions and shed some light on the topics. So without further adieu, I present to you, my first article with Mon0r.

As per Icky’s request, my first article will answer the above question. So, why do Japanese women scream in bed like they are getting raped? Well, this boils down to the way Japanese people view women. Furthermore, it is because appearances play a huge role in how Japanese society works. Let me ask you the following questions: Have you wondered why Japan is called the land of the “suits”? Also, have you wondered why the majority of females here dress so fashionably? Furthermore, have you wondered why actors or actresses that have their reputations tarnished never have their careers recover?  Well again, the answer comes from the perception that appearance is everything and this is taken to another level in Japan. It’s the same with fetishes. The Japanese take things to the next level.

I once heard of an interesting discussion topic while at work. The question was, “would you walk outside and buy something at the convenience store in your pyjamas?” So in western society, it’s acceptable to do something like this because both the customer and clerk don’t care. However, the responses from the Japanese students were quite different. They would not walk outside unless they are fully dressed, hair made and make up is on. I then said, “why? It’s just the convenience store and who cares what people think.” This is where the cultural differences start to show and become more apparent. One student had said that they would be demeaning the store clerk, and that we think that he or she is “just” a convenience store employee. Furthermore, they would not want to make the clerk feel uncomfortable by dressing that way. Both the feelings of the customer and clerk must be taken in consideration. Appearances, what people think of you, how you want people to view you, the level of respect you want to give others and also a plethora of different things contribute to the cultural differences.

So now that we set up a little background, let’s get back on to topic and tie things together. So why does appearances even matter to the topic at hand? Well, Japanese women are supposed to look and act like ladies. Young girls are brought up to be like the perfect women and liking sex is not something lady like. That’s why a lot of them sound that way during sex. I also asked a friend for his opinions and he pretty much solidified the evidence. Japanese women during sex would still put up that act that they didn’t want sex. Hence the way they sound in bed and also why you see all these rape fetishes in Japan. It also doesn’t help that Japanese society is still very male oriented and women are supposed to be obedient and submissive.

It’s the culture and not because Japanese women have skinny vaginas. If you ever have sex with a Japanese woman that was raised in a western country (Ethnically Japanese but culturally say American), they definitely would not sound like a Japanese woman born and raised in Japan.

In a lot of Japanese pornography, this screaming and moaning is taken to a different level. It is like the norm even for AV actresses to portray the idea of purity, perfection, being high class and lady like; even though it’s obvious that they are none of the above because they are in a freaking porno for Christ’s sake. Regardless, a lot of Japanese men gobble it up because it’s socially acceptable. I could go more into the Japanese sex industry but that would be for another time.

To sum it all up, Japanese women sound like they are getting raped during sex because of the appearances that they have to maintain.

So that’s it for my first article. Thanks to Icky for the first topic. I hope you enjoyed that little tidbit and if you have any suggestions for further topics to talk about, you can email me at [email protected]

2 Comments Post a comment
  1. Mar 19 2012

    good stuff dawg. first article i read on this site and its a beauty.

    Reply
  2. dan
    May 7 2012

    Thanks, I was thinking along the same lines. Have you confirmed any of this by talking with actual Japanese collegues though?

    Reply

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